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The Religious Right vs. Birth Control

Seeded on Wed Jul 21, 2010 10:54 AM EDT
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Does health care reform's promise of preventive care extend to free birth control? Officials at the Department of Health and Human Services have 18 months to decide whether to require insurers to provide oral contraceptives, IUDs, and other prescription birth control with no co-pay. With pro-choice Secretary Kathleen Sebelius at the helm, HHS is expected to say yes.
At this point in the process, social conservatives are shut out in the cold, quaking with impotent rage. Now that the reform bill is law, HHS has to interpret the rules—and the Obama administration officials at HHS can't be swayed as easily as elected officials.

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Soph0571

Expanding access to birth control is smart policy because it reduces health care costs, as Suzi Khimm notes in Mother Jones. Birth control is a lot cheaper for insurers than pregnancy and childbirth. Free birth control could change women’s lives for the better. In this economy, $30 to $50 a month for hormonal birth control can be a major obstacle for many.

  • 20 votes
#1 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 10:55 AM EDT
Alex, Lou KY

I almost went into a morality rant. Not going to do it because quite frankly, there is not one thing they can do about this. *smiles and whistles away*

  • 4 votes
#1.1 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 11:26 AM EDT
SquealLikeAPigDemocratLoversDeleted
D. Craig C

Proven Alternative Birth Control Methods for the Religious Right:

Prostitutes

Rentboys

Congressional pages and staffers

Mistresses

Wives of friends, relatives, and neighbors

Children

The American middle-class and taxpayers in general

  • 12 votes
#1.3 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 2:02 PM EDT
Alex, Lou KY

D.N.F.T.T.

  • 2 votes
#1.4 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 2:04 PM EDT
Soph0571

SquealLikeAPigDemocratLovers

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  • 3 votes
#1.5 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 2:13 PM EDT
BallzDeepInNovDemocratsMouthDeleted
Laochra

God Soph you really are gaining some lunatics, I suppose it's a fairly good indicator that you're tugging on the right strings! Think they're all the same guy, or are people getting "inspired"?

On the issue, I think it would be a fantastic offer to introduce free or subsidised contraception, particularly as so many conservative leaning American's value the "abstinance" school of teaching as the only way to go.

Have you noticed that in societies throughout the world, the role of women in everyday life improves once technological conveniences within the household and contraception is widely available? I don't know if that reflects well or badly on society as a whole but certainly over here once the contraception was legalised (no more condom collectoin trains up to the north!) other aspects of women rights such as working within the public service after marriage etc. came into effect.

  • 12 votes
#1.7 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 5:43 PM EDT
Shannoscubie

other aspects of women rights such as working within the public service after marriage etc. came into effect.

It's better for the economy, too, when women produce more than just children.

  • 14 votes
#1.8 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 6:08 PM EDT
Soph0571

Think they're all the same guy, or are people getting "inspired"?

there's 2 of them - the glorious one we see here and the one I like to call sophiesucks. LOL

Have you noticed that in societies throughout the world, the role of women in everyday life improves once technological conveniences within the household and contraception is widely available?

Exactly - have you noticed it is mostly in catholic (really catholic) countries where we see so much poverty - South America is a good example - women having babies they cannot afford until they drop dead because the priest told them....

  • 11 votes
#1.9 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 6:21 PM EDT
Laochra

"Exactly - have you noticed it is mostly in catholic (really catholic) countries where we see so much poverty"

Too true for so many people unfortunately. Just look at Ireland? Once the government finally made a proper stab at seperation of state and church instead of the psuedo theocracy it had been previous to the mid eighties was when prosperity finally started to happen (well AS WELL as entry in Europe, grudgingly admitted).

Fact of the matter is, no civilisation can flourish when it treats fifty percent of it's population as second class citizens or try to dictate how they live their lives. I have uncles and aunties with 6+ children and while that's fine if that is what you want in life, too often women have felt constrained by both their church and familial pressure to enter into a life of motherhood they neither want nor are prepared for. You'd think it would be a thing of the past in this day and age...

  • 9 votes
#1.10 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 6:35 PM EDT
Soph0571

You'd think it would be a thing of the past in this day and age...

I know....but when you have poor communities clinging to their religions and the Priest is the patriarch of the society - hell how can it change. I can even understand it - when you have no hope in this life why the hell would you want to risk exclusion in the next. grown men preaching to poor women - makes me sick

  • 6 votes
#1.11 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 7:27 PM EDT
Brandon-801865

I agree with Al Franken in that, "Conservatives believe that life begins with conception and ends at birth."

Better pull yourselves up by your bootie straps, wingnuts!

  • 10 votes
#1.12 - Sat Jan 8, 2011 1:27 PM EST
mrsrachelm

At this point in the process, social conservatives are shut out in the cold, quaking with impotent rage.

Ummm....

I'm a practicing Christian conservative old fashioned GOP'r and I haven't "quaked with impotent rage" concerning birth control before or after HCR became law. I've -used- birth control when I was younger.

I'm all for birth control such as "the Pill", IUD, etc...being made available to adult women and underage girls with parental consent. I'm also all for a very low copay and even free to those earning less than a specified amount. I think those who make a decent wage and living should pay a reasonable co-pay but that's really a nit-picky aside to the actual topic.

I'm not sure where the "shaking with impotent rage" drama-lama speak is coming from. It's great for a nice novel or psychological thriller type movie but really has no place in rational or civil discourse.

  • 4 votes
#1.13 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:32 AM EST
Socrates1

Exactly..MR....don't you get tired of the "impotent rage" of the Left? Isn't that what the Left is all about?

  • 1 vote
#1.14 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:37 AM EST
mrsrachelm

Socrates:

In all fairness, I've seen this type of pot-shot language of various kinds being used by -both- sides and it doesn't matter to me -who- is doing it...it accomplishes nothing positive. I'd like to see us -all- ratchet down the rhetoric and the hate-filled comments such as is displayed here:

D. Craig C

Proven Alternative Birth Control Methods for the Religious Right:

Prostitutes

Rentboys

Congressional pages and staffers

Mistresses

Wives of friends, relatives, and neighbors

Children

The American middle-class and taxpayers in general

#1.2 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 2:02 PM EDT

and frankly, in your sentence:

Isn't that what the Left is all about?

as well.

We -all- need to stop doing this. It leads not only us...but those we don't know who might be reading it.....down a very negative road. We need to stop....all of us...and begin to insist on placing the "gotcha!" games aside. we need to stop pointing to the speck in the other person's eye and refusing to admit there's a log in our own. And finally, we need to -start- changing our discourse for the betterment of ourselves and our world.

  • 6 votes
#1.15 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:55 AM EST
Socrates1

I understand your perspective....really...I don't share it....I find the Left to be much more likely to be involved in offensive statements aimed at questioning the motivations of others. "We" don't all need to stop it....the Left has been at it for decades and the lack of response from the Right was either taken as agreement or weakness.

I believe I do attempt to participate in rational discussions...I simply can't find any unless it involves non-Liberals.

Are you suggesting that your above example comes from the religious right?

As I suggested from the beginning..the title is a complete misprepresentation and thus must be addressed.

We seem to have a lot of threads in common...I stand by what I say and do.

Sorry...really.

  • 1 vote
#1.16 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:17 AM EST
nica1829

"Baby killer Tiller", "should keep their legs closed", "liberals are evil" Just a few statements I have heard from the right on the Vine - so yes Socrates the right can be just as hateful as the left - if you can't see that then take off the blinders - OR keep them on and remain in your delusion.

  • 6 votes
#1.17 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:27 AM EST
Shannoscubie

Just a few statements I have heard from the right on the Vine

Remember when someone called us "liberal whores"? That was fun. :-\

I agree with mrsrachelm: I think everybody needs to dial it down.

  • 9 votes
#1.18 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:52 AM EST
nica1829

Shannoscubie, I, too, agree. It's time to stop the stupidity and name calling, and finger pointing and start acting like adults.

  • 3 votes
#1.19 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:12 AM EST
Socrates1

Great...I've put you on the list...no name calling and finger pointing between us.

  • 1 vote
#1.20 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 12:05 PM EST
mrsrachelm

Socrates:

Why are you apologizing to me?!! You are entitled to your own views and you presented them respectfully. THAT is exactly the way it should be when any of us disagree with each other. Your comment #1.14 was a great example of what civil discourse looks like while in disagreement with each other.

Hey, you're still a blue post commenter for me and you know I often agree with what you say. The times we've disagreed has always been respectful. THAT is all any of us can ask from each other.

If you could disagree with liberals with that same respectfulness....and they also with you/us....wow.....what a wonderful thing! You ultimately have to choose for yourself what you feel is appropriate...as do we all.

  • 3 votes
#1.21 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:07 PM EST
Shannoscubie

If you could disagree with liberals with that same respectfulness....and they also with you.

Wait, what?! Are you a liberal yourself or not?! I'm not so sure I should be nice to you now! ;-)

  • 4 votes
#1.22 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:12 PM EST
Socrates1

mrs...I guess it just points out that there are those who can converse in an appropriate manner...as the saying goes...it takes two to tango.

    #1.23 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:31 PM EST
    mrsrachelm

    Who me, Shanno?

    I cannot tell a lie, LOL.

    I am a died in the wool old fashioned conservative GOP'r like they made way back when. I'm somewhat close to center but I -am- a dreaded "rightie"...and a Christian to boot!.

    LOL.

    • 6 votes
    #1.24 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:06 PM EST
    Shannoscubie

    I am a died in the wool old fashioned conservative GOP'r like they made way back when. I'm somewhat close to center but I -am- a dreaded "rightie"...and a Christian to boot!.

    I was raised by atheist commie pot-smokeing hippies. I can't think of a much more dreadedly-liberal background than that LOL! But the older I get, the more centrist I become, with even *gasp* (don't tell my mom) some conservative leanings. That would be more so fiscally than socially, though. ;-)

    FR sent because of how much I appreciate your unflinching dedication to civility!

    • 6 votes
    #1.25 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:27 PM EST
    RaisedByWolves

    We do get a bit more centrist about some things as we age; but I fear I probably knew your hippie parents! And I agree about Mrs. Rachel: always a great person to have an exchange of views.

    • 2 votes
    #1.26 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:40 PM EST
    Stone5150

    I like discussions without all the vitriol, thanks mrsrachelm

    • 3 votes
    #1.27 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:43 PM EST
    Stone5150

    I can understand being against abortion, but I don't understand the opposition to birth control. Also, shouldn't abortion opponents be big time advocates for adoption?

    • 3 votes
    #1.28 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:44 PM EST
    mrsrachelm

    FR sent because of how much I appreciate your unflinching dedication to civility!

    Honored to accept!

    • 2 votes
    #1.29 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:06 PM EST
    mrsrachelm

    Also, shouldn't abortion opponents be big time advocates for adoption?

    As far as I know, most are. I know I am. I would have loved to been able to adopt but due to serious health issues, I am not a good candidate as an adoptive parent.

    • 4 votes
    #1.30 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:11 PM EST
    Shannoscubie

    Also, shouldn't abortion opponents be big time advocates for adoption?

    I think one of the main points of the article that seems to have been deflected by the objectionable headline is that abortion opponents should also be huge proponents of making birth control as accessible as possible.

    • 7 votes
    #1.31 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:54 PM EST
    Pat N

    Also, shouldn't abortion opponents be big time advocates for adoption?

    Are you implying they aren't?

    • 1 vote
    #1.32 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:57 PM EST
    Stone5150

    Most abortion opponents I have met don't give a damn about the kid once they are born, while still in the womb they are fervent about their rights however.

    • 8 votes
    #1.33 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:09 PM EST
    Socrates1

    Regarding the article...abortion isn't really the issue...birth control isn't really the issue.....free birth control is the issue....now do you see how the badly the title misrepresented the article and the issue.

    Oh, and btw, it wasn't even the "religious right".

    • 1 vote
    #1.34 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:34 PM EST
    Shannoscubie

    free birth control is the issue.

    Free birth control is already available under Medicare. The article's issue is about who is objecting - and why - to the possibility that HCR might expand access to birth control, including free birth control. The objection to birth control because of the fact that it's "free" may be the point YOU wish to discuss. The article's point is that the author believes that certain parties, i.e., the "religious right" object to birth control in and of itself and particularly to expanding access to it, whether it's free or not. Which is why the article's headline is what it is.

    However, if you wish to speak up for parties who are NOT what you think should be labeled the "religious right" or who are religious or right but who object to FREE birth control rather than birth control in and of itself, that would be a different issue. And a different article. In which case maybe you should seed your own in order to make your own point to be discussed. In which case, may I suggest you choose your title very carefully.

    • 7 votes
    #1.35 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 11:17 PM EST
    Socrates1

    I beg to differ....please provide some semblance of proof from the article that supports your position (s).

      #1.36 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:53 AM EST
      Shannoscubie

      please provide some semblance of proof from the article that supports your position

      If you've already read the article and you still don't understand what the actual subject of it is, my copy/pasting quotes here isn't going to make any difference.

      • 8 votes
      #1.37 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 9:44 AM EST
      ryoushi12

      Sophie, I could have told you this 30 years. I grew up in the heart of rabid anti-choice land in central Minnesota, and knew that was just the tip of that iceberg. The anti-choice crowd has ALWAYS been anti-contraception. In Minnesota the MCCL (Minnesotans Citizens Concerned for Life - gag) has stated in their literature that they support 100% the teachings of the catholic church on sexual issues and reproduction, and they are the mother ship for the anti-choice crowd here. In their ideal little right wing heaven, woman are in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant, and their religious leaders actively push that position (you should hear what some catholic priest up here have to say, it would make you violently ill for days)

      That's why I don't bother to listen to them, other than to keep up on the current agitprop.

      Oh, and I'm a middle aged white guy, raised catholic but recovering.

      • 6 votes
      #1.38 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 10:32 AM EST
      Socrates1

      Shanno....and that is what you consider a valid reply? Humor me.....

        #1.39 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 4:22 PM EST
        huskergal

        Free birth control is already available under Medicare.

        I should hope so. At age 66 I am too old to start having kids. LOL

        • 8 votes
        #1.40 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:38 PM EST
        Shannoscubie

        I should hope so. At age 66 I am too old to start having kids

        Oops, should I have said Medicaid? I get them mixed up!

        • 5 votes
        #1.41 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 8:58 PM EST
        Socrates1

        Considering your previous comments regarding rational debate...I find your present responses somewhat surprising....Aren't facts a part of rational debate?

          #1.42 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 11:41 PM EST
          Angry-American

          $30 to $50 a month for hormonal birth control can be a major obstacle for many

          If a person can't afford 30 to 50 dollars a month for birth control then I suggest that these people cannot afford to have sex.

          Oh wait that sounds a lot like people taking responsibility for themselves.

          • 2 votes
          #1.43 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 8:11 PM EST
          MoCowgirl-1193719

          If a person can't afford 30 to 50 dollars a month for birth control then I suggest that these people cannot afford to have sex.

          I thought the best things in life were supposed to be free....

          I have never paid for sex in my life. LOL!

          • 7 votes
          #1.44 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 8:27 PM EST
          real michaud

          if I may the rightwing is following the Vatican's instructions on birth control.

          • 5 votes
          #1.45 - Fri Jan 14, 2011 9:04 AM EST
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          sunnybunny1269

          Ok I'm confused again. I thought the religious right was AGAINST abortion (the result of a lack of or misuse of birth control). WTF?

          • 4 votes
          #2 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 11:35 AM EDT
          Soph0571

          sunnybunny (great name BTW) - they are - but at the same time they don't want women to make any other reproductive choice - barefoot and pregnant!

          • 12 votes
          #2.1 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 11:58 AM EDT
          SquealLikeAPigDemocratLoversDeleted
          Auteur 1536

          Isn't that the good old classic American way?

          • 2 votes
          #2.3 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 5:24 PM EDT
          bonos_rama

          The right is anti-choice, anti-female, and anti-freedom. They hate "liberals" b/c liberal means free; ergo, they hate liberals for their freedoms. Just like the muslim terrorists do!!

          • 10 votes
          #2.4 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 11:10 PM EDT
          Javabean88

          While they are against abortions, they yearn for the days of old. They don't like women in the workforce because after all, those jobs could be going to white men. Women in their ideal world are tucked away in the home and seen, but not heard and producing child after child while getting the house cleaned and dinner on the table by 5 for their husbands. They don't feel women have any worth beyond that and it sends them into a rage if they get out of their "God-given" roles.

          • 10 votes
          #2.5 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 6:50 PM EDT
          daMamma

          They don't feel women have any worth beyond that and it sends them into a rage if they get out of their "God-given" roles.

          Now I call this the Insecure Little Tiny Penis Syndrome. There are those out there are that are so insecure that they have to suppress the female population. This is done in order to make themselves feel good about themselves. It also gives them the false impression/security that they have somehow greater value and importance than the other half (women).

          ILTPS is most prevalent in societies that are religiously dominated. ILTPS is treatable and can be prevented. Please observe a Keep Separate the Church & State society soon.
          [*chuckles*]

          • 9 votes
          #2.6 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 1:06 PM EST
          MoCowgirl-1193719

          Insecure Little Tiny Penis Syndrome. There are those out there are that are so insecure that they have to suppress the female population.

          This actually rings true.

          I have had men tell me that their wife divorced them because their penis was too small --- which it probably was, but I suspect the real reason that their wife left them was because the man's mind was too small.

          • 11 votes
          #2.7 - Sat Jan 8, 2011 1:40 PM EST
          mrsrachelm

          The right is anti-choice, anti-female, and anti-freedom. They hate "liberals" b/c liberal means free; ergo, they hate liberals for their freedoms. Just like the muslim terrorists do!!

          I take it we've learned nothing about what these types of dram-laden generalizations and angry over-the-top rhetoric that we sling at each other from either side of political aisle accomplishes.....which is nothing.....but more angry over-the-top rhetoric.

          It needs to stop...by all of us.

          • 5 votes
          #2.8 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:39 AM EST
          Socrates1

          True...and then I proceed...:)

          My major point here is that Conservatives rarely "hate" Liberals....that seems to be one of the major differences. Perhaps it's a Christian thing?

          • 1 vote
          #2.9 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:49 AM EST
          mrsrachelm

          I'm a Christian and I don't hate "liberals". But i have seen many hateful and/or negative comments directed towards liberals from conservative and Christians alike. And the reverse is also true. But change has to begin somewhere. It will never happen if we keep saying that the other "side" has to change -first-. Civil and respectful discourse has to begin with each of us as individuals regardless of the flames being directed at us.

          I can ask for respectful and civil discourse and an end of the pot shots and angry snark-laden rhetoric, plead for it even....as I have been doing....but my pleas are meaningless if I don't also engage in it myself.

          But...we're going off topic here and derailing Soph's seed so back on topic...

          • 5 votes
          #2.10 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:06 AM EST
          Pat N

          My major point here is that Conservatives rarely "hate" Liberals....that seems to be one of the major differences. Perhaps it's a Christian thing?

          This is a good point. I often see "I *hate* religious zealots". Or "I *hate* big corporations"....from those on the left. I even saw one thread entitled.."I *hate* re-reggers" one time. I can see being annoyed by re-reggers, but *hating* them? That seems a little over the top.

          But back on topic: Is the 'satire' tag missing from this thread? Since when does the religious right oppose birth control? Even back in my CATHOLIC school days in the early and mid-80's, it was taught as a means of responsible, safe sex.

          Seems to me that this is one of those 'assumptions' that are floating around out there because one small handful...a very small percentage of the general public...believes in abstinence only. Making declarations like this is akin to implying that ALL of the 'non-religious' left throws hissy fits when they see a nativity scene.

          • 2 votes
          #2.11 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:05 AM EST
          Socrates1

          mrsR...there is a difference between hateful and negative....that's my point. I also understand leadership by example,etc., but I again must disagree.....there is not equality from both sides in terms of how each conducts themselves.

          The title is a lie. I have seen numerous examples regarding "liberal articles and seeds". Ignoring the problem does not make it go away.

          I hope this does not come between us.....note how we can discuss the issue in a civil manner.

          Pat.....agreed.

          • 2 votes
          #2.12 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:24 AM EST
          mrsrachelm

          Of course it won't come between us!

          If you turn into a stark raving @!$%#-slinging over the top piss in everyones cornflakes type of person....well I'll consider de-friending you then. I figure that gives you about ...oh, say...another 50 years as a blue post-er here.

          ;-P


          PatN;

          Very good points. I know a lot of practicing Catholics who don't agree with the Church's stance on birth control. They use it and don't apologize for it.

          I would rather see birth control over abortion and birth control being readily available should impact the abortion stats significantly (I hope).

          • 4 votes
          #2.13 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:17 PM EST
          Shannoscubie

          If you turn into a stark raving @!$%#-slinging over the top piss in everyones cornflakes type of person.

          LOL! Great description. I was on a seed earlier today where the MODERATOR was doing it. Sheesh.

          • 5 votes
          #2.14 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:25 PM EST
          Socrates1

          phew...."turn into"..I guess I'm safe for now.

          The difference...as I continue to be off topic.....I don't like to be "first" to be rude, I'm sensitive to being rude to those I rarely see being rude, and I'm willing to admit if I inadvertently was rude....sorry, my shoulder just got dislocated from patting myself on the back...:)

          • 1 vote
          #2.15 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:33 PM EST
          mrsrachelm

          ROFL!

          • 2 votes
          #2.16 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:11 PM EST
          Soph0571

          Good God a seed from 7 months ago just took on a life of its own:-) But all of you rock - seriously it is sooooooo nice to see this civilised debate even including from my much love frenemies:)

          • 6 votes
          #2.17 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:54 PM EST
          mrsrachelm

          :-P

          Yeah, it's kinda wierd when these older seeds pop up on the tracker every now and again.

          • 6 votes
          #2.18 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:11 PM EST
          Shannoscubie

          But all of you rock - seriously it is sooooooo nice to see this civilised debate even including from my much love frenemies

          Hey, Soph, howya doin? Long time no see you drama-headline-seeding liberal whore you! I've been gagging over here for lack of knowing what I'm supposed to think, I'm glad one of your seeds popped up to get my head straight!

          • 6 votes
          #2.19 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:50 PM EST
          RaisedByWolves

          Waving to Soph. How are you feeling?

          We are certainly enjoying this seed. It is an important part of the discussion on abortion and birth control and women's rights.

          • 3 votes
          #2.20 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 10:06 AM EST
          ryoushi12

          Pat, are you sure that was really a "catholic" school. The high school I went to, they actually ripped out the pages in the sex ed books that mentioned contraception in any form. And this was in 1978-79. Any discussion on sexuality that didn't involve abstinence and marriage simply didn't happen.

          And the catholic church I see hasn't moved an inch from that position, although a lot of the laity has.

          • 6 votes
          #2.21 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 10:39 AM EST
          Shannoscubie

          they actually ripped out the pages in the sex ed books that mentioned contraception in any form. And this was in 1978-79

          Wow, that sounds pretty drastic for the late 70s.

          • 4 votes
          #2.22 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 10:50 AM EST
          Soph0571

          Hi guys - I'm good:-) RBW! but sooooo busy at work so my vine time is low - I am even having to work weekends and evenings! the outrage of it all LOL

          • 1 vote
          #2.23 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:12 PM EST
          RaisedByWolves

          I spend a lot of time in pain from an repetitive task injury around 10 years ago; but I don't miss working. Miss the extra money, but not working... :-)

          • 2 votes
          #2.24 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:50 PM EST
          huskergal

          I have a picture in my head of a very frustrated God looking down upon us saying: "Heavens years and years ago I told them to "Be fertile, Go and populate the world. And they listened and listened and listened and now they have overpopulated the earth and I can't get them to stop. Hey, you down there - yes you- stop populating the earth before you find you have made yourself extinct from starvation. lack of air, lack of water. Stop being fertile and populating the earth. Please" /Satire

          • 8 votes
          #2.25 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:53 PM EST
          mrsrachelm

          ROFL!

          • 4 votes
          #2.26 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 9:29 PM EST
          MoCowgirl-1193719

          Hey, you down there - yes you- stop populating the earth before you find you have made yourself extinct from starvation.

          When in history have the Christians really paid attention to what God told them to do or not to do?

          Christians seem to take their direction from wolves ahh... men in priest's clothing who tell them what God wants them to do.

          About the only thing these "godly" men can agree on is that women have no rights to much of anything including their own body... and that children are God's "gifts" to women.

          Science has proven how babies are made and doctors can now start babies outside of a body and implant them into another body. God has nothing to do with it.

          Women should always have access to any birth control method that they feel comfortable with and that works for them.

          No one has the right to demand a woman be an incubator for a man's seed.

          • 9 votes
          #2.27 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 3:02 AM EST
          huskergal

          Mizzu, You are right, but Christians believe that abortion is murder when in fact, the Biblical command is: "Be Fertile. Go forth and populated the earth." It is in the Talmud, the words of the Rabbinical Sages (Pharisees and Teachers of the Law) that banned abortion as a means of birth control, but not as a way to save the mother's life. In the bible it says, do not cook the baby in its mother's milk; do not kill the mother. Jesus says if you find a nest with babies in it, do what you want with the babies, but do not touch the mother.

          In the bible women are important, men do not like this. Religion is "man" made. How many times are we warned in the bible "Beware of false teachers" and what do we have? "Wolves in sheep's clothing" leading the sheep.

          In the beginning, it was necessary for us to fertile so that we could increase in number and preserve our species. In the beginning there are two versions of Adam and Eve. In the first one, they were created together, at the same time, out of dust and they were equal. "Man" didn't like that so wrote the second version, making woman subservient by being created from Adam's rib.

          Men and Woman were created equal and woman has just as much right over her body as does a man. If she doesn't want to have children she doesn't have to have children.

          No one has the right to demand a woman be an incubator for a man's seed.

          • 4 votes
          #2.28 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 9:12 AM EST
          mrsrachelm

          What the hell Bible are you reading from, huskergal?

          Could you please cite references for these:

          1) In the bible it says, do not cook the baby in its mother's milk; do not kill the mother.

          2) Jesus says if you find a nest with babies in it, do what you want with the babies, but do not touch the mother.

          • 2 votes
          #2.29 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:39 AM EST
          huskergal

          Well mrsR.

          1. Do not cook a baby goat in its mother's milk. Exodus 23:19; 34:26; Deuteronomy 14:21.

          In each and every appearance it stands by itself, its meaning unclear. It is not until Deueronomy that it becomes part of the Kosher laws. It stands alone so meaning is really unclear. It is like it doesn't belong there but put there because it had to go somewhere. Since Deuteronomy finally made it part of Kosher laws, well, could be, but...

          2. In looking this up, I found that I attribute it to Jesus but it is in the Torah

          If you find a bird's nest by the road, either in a tree or on the ground, and the mother is sitting on the young birds or eggs, do not take the mother bird with the young. You may take the young birds but you must let the mother go free, Then things will go well for you, and you will live a long time. Deuteronomy 22:6-7.

          I also made another mistake. So for clarity I will correct it

          1. In the bible it says, Do not cook the baby goat in its mother's milk = do not touch the mother =do not hurt of kill the mother.

          2. If you find a bird's nest by the road, either in a tree or on the ground, and the mother is sitting on the young birds or eggs, do not take the mother bird with the young. You may take the young birds but you must let the mother go free, = do not hurt or kill the mother.

          Number 1 never made sense to me as it doesn't go with the verse it is in and it stands alone. It is like it doesn't belong there; just added because no one knew where to put it. When I read number 2, number one made sense as the mother's milk can nourish other babies. Men just do not understand these things so put number 1 where they thought it belonged.

          God or the Bible has a way of saying the same thing over and over agains, but in different ways.

          I hope I explained it properly. Thanks for calling attention to these for me. I appreciate it.

          • 1 vote
          #2.30 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 12:32 PM EST
          mrsrachelm

          Thanks for the clarification and....

          those verses have nothing whatsoever to do with abortion and everything to do with conservation.

          LOL

          • 2 votes
          #2.31 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 12:39 PM EST
          huskergal

          MrsR.

          Like I said, it is the Talmud that says abortion should not be used for birth control except to save the mother's life. the Rabbinic Sages of the times took those verses to mean to conserve the mother's life. So you are right about the verses being about conservation.

          • 1 vote
          #2.32 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:34 PM EST
          Socrates1

          Which suggests that now might be the time to differentiate between abortion and birth control...I might also mention that the discussion is going exactly where I said it would go, based on the erroneous assertion in the title, and, I would suggest, the reason for the title being what it is.

          It just goes to show the effort certain people make to change the subject of the debate as opposed to debating the actual subject.

            #2.33 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:01 PM EST
            huskergal

            Sorry Soph and Socrates if you believe that I took it elsewhere. I had a funny picture in my head and had to share it with you all.

            Socrates, abortion is a form of birth control and there are many who use it as such. However, the other forms of birth control are much better and should be available to every female of reproductive age. I am in total agreement with that.

            • 4 votes
            #2.34 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:38 PM EST
            Socrates1

            huskergirl....thank you for your reasonable response...to continue that trend...without getting into the abortion debate...my theme regarding this article is that bc and abortion are not the particular issue in this case....who pays for it is.

            • 1 vote
            #2.35 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:43 PM EST
            Stone5150

            I can see someone having a beef with paying for an unnecessary abortion (i.e.; no one's life is at risk and not product of incest) but not paying for birth control for people who can't or won't pay for it themselves is counterproductive. The Religious Right (Reich?) are typically right-wingers who are likely opposed to welfare babies as well, seems like prevention would be way cheaper and less touchy.

            • 4 votes
            #2.36 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:48 PM EST
            huskergal

            As to my understanding, everybody is going to be able to buy affordable healthcare. I hope this also means affordable drug plans. If my understanding is correct, the individual will be paying for it. It will work the same way your coverage works. You pay a premium to the insurance company and in return, after you pay the co-pay the insurance company pays the rest of the cost.

            • 2 votes
            #2.37 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:54 PM EST
            Socrates1

            Perhaps, but in terms of this article, the Heritage Foundation is considered the "Religious Right". I would disagree and suggest it is a misnomer.

              #2.38 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:55 PM EST
              mrsrachelm

              Don't most people who are pro-choice take exception to it when those who are pro-life say that people use abortion as a form of birth control? And yet here I read:

              Socrates, abortion is a form of birth control and there are many who use it as such.

              I'm confuseled. LOL

              If the inclusion of Birth control on Obamacare also includes the costs of abortion. Then yeah, I have an issue now. Preventative measures to pregnancy all fine and good but abortion is not birth control and should not be used -as- birth control.

              • 2 votes
              #2.39 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 5:36 PM EST
              Shannoscubie

              If the inclusion of Birth control on Obamacare also includes the costs of abortion. Then yeah, I have an issue now.

              There are all kinds of things in place to exclude abortion from being paid for by tax dollars. What one of the groups mentioned in the article is complaining about is that they don't consider birth control to be "preventative" health care because fertility isn't a disease so it shouldn't be included.

              • 7 votes
              #2.40 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 5:47 PM EST
              mrsrachelm

              Good to know.

              they don't consider birth control to be "preventative" health care because fertility isn't a disease so it shouldn't be included.

              exactly.

              Thanks for the clarification.

              • 2 votes
              #2.41 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 5:50 PM EST
              huskergal

              Socrates, abortion is a form of birth control and there are many who use it as such.

              Ah my comment. Very good mrsr. Now let's go back and get the rest of it shall we?

              However, the other forms of birth control are much better and should be available to every female of reproductive age. I am in total agreement with that.

              I admit that I am pro-life - for myself, but I'll fight tooth and nail for my neighbor or friend to have the right to have an abortion.

              What one of the groups mentioned in the article is complaining about is that they don't consider birth control to be "preventative" health care because fertility isn't a disease so it shouldn't be included.

              Most likely a predominately male group who want their wives under them. You do realize that if men got pregnant there wouldn't be this argument. Any form of birth control would be fine with them and they'd want it cheap or free.

              • 6 votes
              #2.42 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 6:29 PM EST
              Socrates1

              And, once again, the questions, in terms of this article, are

              1. Who is this "Religious Right" of whom the title speaks....The Heritage Foundation?

              2. Should various forms of birth control, including apparently abortions, be paid for by public funds?

              3. Why is the title misrepresenting the article?

              • 1 vote
              #2.43 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 9:54 PM EST
              huskergal

              Answers

              1. http://www.askheritage.org/?utm_source=Yahoo-Bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=2011CC

              http://www.heritage.org/issues/health-care

              Socrates, it is easy to find.Iif you wanted to know the Heritage Foundation are, you should have just looked them up. I posted links to make this easier for you, :)

              2. Since this planet is becoming vastly overcrowded, birth control is a necessity. For those who can not afford it because they do not have affordable drug coverage, yes it should be paid for by public funds. Every man, woman, and child should be able to have good health care and this includes all kinds of birth control, including vasectomies.

              3. It is not, unless it should read the extreme religious right vs birth control. Headlines are written to attract readers. This group. The Heritage foundation, is as far right as one can get and is against any form of public money be spent on birth control.

              • 4 votes
              #2.44 - Fri Jan 14, 2011 4:18 AM EST
              Socrates1

              1. The Heritage Foundation...you miss the point....I'm glad you looked them up...I assume you realize that they are not the "Religious" Right.

              2. Fine, at least you are addressing the actual subject of the article.....not the topic misprepresented in the title.

              3. Based on What????? What in the article supports the title? The article discusses FREE birth control...which you did address in number 2. The Heritage Fund may be far right....but it is not the "religious" right. and, no, the title should not read...the extreme right vs. birth control...I have already posted suggested accurate titles. Headlines may be written to attract readers, but they should have some relationship to the article.

              I'm sorry...I just don't get it....defending a title which does not reflect the article.

              • 1 vote
              #2.45 - Fri Jan 14, 2011 4:59 AM EST
              huskergal

              A lot of Headlines do not reflect the article. It is called sensational journalism. This article is just one of many.

              Now run off and bother someone else,. I have had enough of your infantile pandering on this seed.

              It was interesting and I learned a lot about you and I do hope we will meet again. :)

              • 4 votes
              #2.46 - Fri Jan 14, 2011 5:07 AM EST
              Reply
              Shannoscubie

              Liberals and conservatives aren’t just divided by abortion but by broader questions of female equality and sexual freedom.

              In virtually all the discussions I've encountered, that's basically what it boils down to. IMO, the pro-choice side seems to understand and usually tries to approach it from this direction but the anti-abortion side can't seem to focus on anything but the fate of millions of wee blastocysts.

              • 13 votes
              Reply#3 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:14 PM EDT
              SquealLikeAPigDemocratLoversDeleted
              Reply
              bluearcher

              I can't think of one example where greater access to birth control has not been beneficial to women.

              • 11 votes
              Reply#4 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 1:32 PM EDT
              Soph0571

              Agreed - for both protection against STDs and unwanted or unaffordable pregnancy - it is a sin that in some countries dirt poor women are having baby after baby that they cannot afford to feed because someone in a dog collar told them contraceptive was contrary to the bible.

              • 7 votes
              #4.1 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 2:46 PM EDT
              Reply
              IronLung

              We should offer free abortions to the Religious Right. We have to thin those numbers somehow.

              • 4 votes
              Reply#5 - Wed Jul 21, 2010 2:39 PM EDT
              sayeeda

              Good Morning Soph.

              My comment is particularly for Laochra. I am pleased you have quoted the Irish Republic, and the matter of the Catholic Church. I am a female, British Muslim, human rights lawyer. I have on a number of occasions fought cases in a number of countries, where it is has been the compassion of the case that it is a woman's human right to terminate a pregnancy. I usually win. Sadly for many women, where courts are concerned, if the matter is to go to appeal, the time factor will come into play. So, it is that many women still suffer. Because, they are time barred by certain judges manipulating the appeal system's listing process. However, for your information, I might invite you to look up on google:- (Family Planning and Islam: A Review Khalid Farooq Akbar) If you were to study this, you will find enough information to take on the most hardened of Judges of a certain religious persuasion. There you will find how over population of a country places lives of infants in grave danger, as well as the life of a young mother. Islam will permit termination up to 120 days. Though I have personally on at least one occasion fought and one beyond that period.

              • 5 votes
              Reply#6 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 5:42 AM EDT
              bluearcher

              I am a female, British Muslim, human rights lawyer.

              With respect, how is it possible to justify your faith in regards to your education and profession?

              Considering the misogyny, bigotry, racism, war-mongering, slavery, allowance for deceit, etc. clearly stated within the Koran, Haddith and Sunnah...

              As a Muslim, you believe that the Koran is the divine word of Allah (all contradictions and inconsistencies aside) or you do not. If you do not, you are an apostate and open to punishment of death and are thus, not a Muslim.

              Or are you conveniently "cherry-picking" your belief system? If so, do you cherry pick secular laws that do not parallel your faith?

              • 1 vote
              #6.1 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 8:50 AM EDT
              Shannoscubie

              With respect, how is it possible to justify your faith in regards to your education and profession?

              Muslims are as varied as Christians or any other faith in their observation and interpretations. I also think it's unfair to play the "if you do/think such-and-so then you are not a true believer" no matter what faith you're talking about.

              • 12 votes
              #6.2 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 12:29 PM EDT
              Laochra

              @Blue Archer

              Very unfair comment. I know thousands of Catholics that don’t stone adulterers, eat meat on a Friday, enjoy shellfish and a million other things that technically condemn them to hell. Moderates are what is required in any religion and the fact that you’re berating a moderate Muslim for no reason other than the fact that she is proud of her heritage is an unfair and frankly puzzling response.

              The greatest criticism I have heard regarding Muslims is their treatment of women, and how they don’t speak out and change the way things are done. Here is a well educated women who seems to work hard in defence of female rights….What more can you want from an individual?

              You criticise a moderate, liberal thinking Muslim for daring to oppose female inequality? Change come from within a community, no matter how the outside screams at them.

              • 12 votes
              #6.3 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 12:38 PM EDT
              sayeeda

              Laochra. Thank you,

              If there are two things that the world is short of it’s moderation, and women who speak out for it. I will admit that I do get a massive buzz every time I knock the spots of a single minded bigot in court though.

              • 10 votes
              #6.4 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 12:49 PM EDT
              IronLung

              Those who cherry-pick their faith, be it Catholic or Muslim or Baptist or whatever, seem to only cling to the title of the religion for social or traditional reasons.

              I also think it's unfair to play the "if you do/think such-and-so then you are not a true believer" no matter what faith you're talking about

              "I'm a Catholic, but I eat meat on Friday, and I have sex outside of wedlock, and I don't go to church, etc etc" means that you're not a Catholic, you just call yourself one for convenience. This isn't a bad thing, it's just dishonest. That would be like me saying "I'm a Messianic Jew, but I don't believe in God or Jesus."

              In order to be a member of a religion, you have to adhere to the rules of that religion, or else you are not of that religion. Again, this isn't a bad thing. You can't worship Zeus and claim to be a Christian and expect to be accepted as a Christian. There's nothing wrong with shedding the meaningless title and just believing what you believe, but if you're going to claim to be a Catholic, or Muslim, or Wiccan, you better be a shining example of it, because you're going to be judged by the definition that you supply for yourself.

              When I Christians who judge the actions of others, I know, for a fact, that the person is not a Christian, because Christ was specific about that thing. A Christian who hates is not a Christian. A Muslim who doesn't pray X amounts of times a day is not a Muslim.

              I just don't see the reason for claiming to be something when you don't follow that faith the way it is layed out. There is nothing wrong with claiming no religion while still practicing the faith you feel comfortable with.

              • 3 votes
              #6.5 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 1:41 PM EDT
              sayeeda

              Iron Lung.

              So many religious beliefs were created so many years ago. Time has moved on. For example you say that you are a Catholic. Therefore your beliefs will include that of Jesus Christ. He was around over 2000 years ago. He walked a lot, he didn’t own a car, because there were none. But I bet he would have played golf and enjoyed a few beers with the boys after in the 19th. Too if that had all exsisted then, He seems that kind of guy, modern for his time. What the religious leaders need to do, in most religions, is modernise their thinking to today’s problems, and today’s way of life. Thats all you are doing. So feel good about yourself.

              • 6 votes
              #6.6 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 1:52 PM EDT
              Laochra

              Or perhaps you love you're God, perhaps you draw different conclusions on how that God is portrayed within the religions holy book of choice and do not want to give up on your belief and worship as a whole but instead better it from within. This is why there are so many different sects of Christianity. It's human nature to change what they don't agree with. It is not a bad thing to gain solice from faith, so long as you live by a live an let live creed. I personally am agnostic.

              The new testament contradicts plenty from the old testament, but it's still considered a part of the bible. Religion is not clear cut and never was. The world is also not black and white, you can believe in an institution and not agree with other aspects of it. That's my point.

              • 8 votes
              #6.7 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 1:54 PM EDT
              IronLung

              I see what you are both saying, and I agree that the times change. I couldn't agree more. My point is that yes, times change, and religions are proven wrong, and their rules are made obsolete, which means that the religions are dying, not redefining.

              For the record, I am not Catholic, I am an atheist, I just use them as my easiest example.

              Religion is very Black & White, I do disagree there. A Religion is nothing more than a definition to simply describe what set of beliefs you have. If you follow the teachings of Christ, which is why he supposedly built his Church to do, then you are a Christian. If you believe that Jesus is the Son of God, but you don't think anything that he said, other than that one fact, is true, then you are not a Christian, because you don't follow the teachings of Christ. You may still be a very devout believer in whatever you believe, but you don't fit into the definition of "Christian" again, this isn't a bad thing.

              We're all free to believe what we want, no matter how silly it is, but when defining yourself, you should be specific and accurate, unless you want to be judged by standards that are not your own. You can't tell someone you're a Muslim, while eating a bacon sandwich at noon during Ramadan, and expect to be treated like a faithful Muslim. You're going to be questioned, and probably written off as a false-Muslim, which is also fine, because who cares what people think, it's a personal choice. But you will be judged by the traditional standards of the age-old religion that you claim to be a member of.

              Personally, I say break all those quaint and silly rules that don't run parallel to the Laws of Man. I think all Muslim should eat pork, pray once a week, and think very little about their god and religion. The same goes for Christians and Jews. But I also believe that all Muslims, Christians, Jews and others should dump their useless religions and focus on reality instead. If nothing else, that would curb a large number of rapes, murders, and wars.

              But then again, I'm just a simple Messianic Islamic Jew who doesn't believe in God, so my opinion doesn't matter much ;)

              • 5 votes
              #6.8 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 2:09 PM EDT
              bluearcher

              I also think it's unfair to play the "if you do/think such-and-so then you are not a true believer" no matter what faith you're talking about.

              Your statement shows a misunderstanding of my post. It is not about "true-believers". It is about how educated individuals with a foundation of logic and reason justify the contradictions and absurdities of their chosen creed.

              Minimizing and cherry picking their belief system to justify continued belief...that is intellectually dishonest and unacceptable to a rational individual.

              Iron Lung did a great job of conveying my thoughts and to avoid redundancy...

              BTW, sayeed, please answer my question in regard to secular laws.

              • 1 vote
              #6.9 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 4:08 PM EDT
              Shannoscubie

              It is about how educated individuals with a foundation of logic and reason justify the contradictions and absurdities of their chosen creed.

              Maybe she wants to make it - or the lives of those in it - better.

              • 4 votes
              #6.10 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 4:12 PM EDT
              Soph0571

              please answer my question in regard to secular laws.

              blue as sayeeda is a lawyer I would imagine she has a healthy regard for law! although I will of course let sayeeda answer for herself:)

              • 4 votes
              #6.11 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 4:15 PM EDT
              Reply
              sayeeda

              BTW, sayeed, please answer my question in regard to secular laws.

              Thank you Soph,

              it's late here. as you will know. I am a little beyond what I think blue is referring to which is Sharia law. I spend most of my sponsored days in court fighting it. Blue, there are many Muslims all over the world who accept the laws of their adopted homelands. This includes most of Europe and parts of the United States. Sadly, there some people who are a little behind the rest of the planet on BOTH sides. Please don’t tell me I have found one. If and only if you want a senseible debate on this and many other subjects, I have been sponsored to answer genuine questions on the vine starting over the next few weeks. I would welcome you to participate in a good debate. My carge out rate for you has been paid for so be sure to take advantage.

              • 4 votes
              Reply#7 - Thu Jul 22, 2010 6:19 PM EDT
              RaisedByWolves

              Waving Hi to my friends on this seed. As a 64 year old, I don't have to worry about birth control any longer, but I was raised by a father who believed that birth control was as evil as abortion - and his religion (which was not mine) was the cause of this, as Catholics believe that preventing insemination is the same as abortion. Many evangelicals here in the U.S. also believe this. This is why there is a shudder when we thing our Roe v. Wade will be challenged: it is not far from stopping abortion to stopping birth control. One problem here in the U.S. is that many young women are happy to rest on our hard-fought battles and do not stop to see this as a logical step.

              • 8 votes
              Reply#8 - Sat Jan 8, 2011 10:21 PM EST
              Lisafrequency

              Birth control has been available to low income women for years and so has abortion.

              There is no way anybody looking for birth control in this nation could not get it.

              Population control is of major concern to the government. which is why drugs with death as a side effect and known neurotoxins are allowed in foods by the FDA/

              • 2 votes
              Reply#9 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 10:29 AM EST
              American Illuminati

              which is why drugs with death as a side effect and known neurotoxins are allowed in foods by the FDA/

              Please take the tin foil hat off. The children are scared enough.

              • 3 votes
              #9.1 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 1:04 PM EST
              RaisedByWolves

              Lisa, right now, this very second, we have pharmacists who claim the right to refuse to fill birth control prescriptions - Target is a biggie for accepting this behavior.

              I don't trust the FDA and haven't since it was filled with Reagan cronies who didn't care if lots of people died just as long as they could please Big Pharma. That is a different problem. Tin foil hat or not.

              I know we can go to a different pharmacist NOW, but the right wing wants to curtail this by overturning Roe v. Wade and going from there.

              • 5 votes
              #9.2 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 4:58 PM EST
              Shannoscubie

              the right wing wants to curtail this by overturning Roe v. Wade and going from there.

              And they seem to think the only way this can legally be done is to declare that "personhood" (and thereby constitutional protection) begins at conception. Which would also affect contraception for millions of women.

              • 7 votes
              #9.3 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 5:04 PM EST
              RaisedByWolves

              Exactly! And I so fear that my younger sisters just do not understand the rights they could lose.

              • 7 votes
              #9.4 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 5:18 PM EST
              Shannoscubie

              And I so fear that my younger sisters just do not understand the rights they could lose.

              I worry about my 9yo daughter, too.

              BTW, love your handle. That's what I ask friends or acquaintances who forget their pleases and thank-yous. "What, were you raised by wolves?"

              • 8 votes
              #9.5 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 5:23 PM EST
              RaisedByWolves

              And I was! My gram raised me; her surname was wolf - she was a wild gypsy woman who inhabited the outer parts of Hollywood crowds who summered at the beach in Santa Monica. I ran the beach when there was a lot less horror than you must face worrying about your 9 year old in these days.

              So, yeah! I was raised by wolves. As you see me on the vine, well sometimes I'll be right out side of the lines!

              • 3 votes
              #9.6 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:13 PM EST
              Shannoscubie

              she was a wild gypsy woman who inhabited the outer parts of Hollywood crowds

              LOL! Maybe I should change my kids' last name. There's a rumor that one of the relatively recent forebears on their dad's side of the family (still living in England) was the offspring of a gypsy canal-dweller and her titled lover. But I wouldn't know what last name to use. :-P

              Your gram sounds like a character worthy of some documentation. ;-)

              *ahem*

              • 4 votes
              #9.7 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:47 PM EST
              RaisedByWolves

              Stories abound, Shannoscuble. I'm in the process of scanning our family photos and writing short stories about them and about my life at the beach. Hard to beat "Gidget" though, who was a real character albeit about 20 miles north of my stomping grounds.

              • 3 votes
              #9.8 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:52 PM EST
              Shannoscubie

              I'm in the process of scanning our family photos and writing short stories about them and about my life at the beach

              Fantastic, I'm sure there's a lot to read about and I look forward to it!

              • 4 votes
              #9.9 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 9:15 PM EST
              Lisafrequency

              Please take the tin foil hat off. The children are scared enough.

              No you need to put one on and read about aspartame and how dangerous it is to the brain.

              • 1 vote
              #9.10 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:14 AM EST
              American Illuminati

              I didn't discount what the drugs do to women's bodies.

              I discounted your assertion that the FDA is attempting population control by legalizing things that will kill us. That is tin foil hat worthy.

              • 1 vote
              #9.11 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:22 AM EST
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              Socrates1

              I'm trying to figure out how the title is anything other then the normal liberal bs. The rest of us are getting just a little tired of wading through the propaganda with which we are being constantly inundated. Have liberals no sense of shame?

              • 3 votes
              #10 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:09 AM EST
              American Illuminati

              Yeah, there is never any propaganda by the Right to wade through. /s

              How dare those liberals.

              • 4 votes
              #10.1 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:05 AM EST
              Socrates1

              lol.....deflection is also a very common tactic on the part of the Left.

              I find little, if anything, that a liberal says to be based on fact or have any type of solid foundation...generally they start from the middle to avoid acknowledging the causes and end in the middle so they can avoid acknowledging the consequences.

              • 1 vote
              #10.2 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:27 AM EST
              nica1829

              Socrates - that is so rich. And do you point out deflections on seeds or articles about Rush Palin or others when a person on the right brings up Obama, Pelosi, Reid when they have nothing to do with the discussion? You are so obviously one sided it is pointless to have a discussion with you. It's like speaking to a 2 year old - you are right because... SARC

              • 3 votes
              #10.3 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:32 AM EST
              Pat N

              Yeah, there is never any propaganda by the Right to wade through

              So your theory is that *propaganda* is bad, and if you see it coming from the other side of the political aisle, it then entitles you to engage in bad behavior as well.

              Got it.

              • 1 vote
              #10.4 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:44 AM EST
              American Illuminati

              Yes, Socrates is completely one-sided. Actually if I deflected then so did you, (note: I did deflect cause I'm not the target you speak of)

              I just find it highly amusing when someone who is completely partisan calls out the other side for partisanship. Now I know I can, on the majority, completely discount anything Socrates says as based completely in Right-Wing idealogy, which isn't in itself a bad thing, but the extreme Socrates has clearly taken it too, is the bad thing.

              Pat N
              You have the absolute worst habit of putting words into other people's responses. Where did I promote bad behavior? Yeah, no where.

              I was merely pointing out how completely one-sided Socrates1 view is by using sarcasm to call out the obvious that both sides do it. Maybe you should consider just read the words people write rather then instill your own meaning, just something to consider.

              • 3 votes
              #10.5 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:47 AM EST
              Pat N

              You have the absolute worst habit of putting words into other people's responses. Where did I promote bad behavior?

              I never said you promoted it. I said your "neener-neener, the right does it too" post sounded like justification for the bad behavior from the left.

              • 2 votes
              #10.6 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:16 AM EST
              Socrates1

              Let's see how long it lasted....not too long....How "bout we pick a couple of threads and count insults? I feel pretty comfortable that over 50% will come from the Left.

              I find it highly amusing that pointing out the fact that the Left engages in name calling virtually on every thread is considered partisan.

              I think it goes along with the type of thinking associated with the title of this article....partisan and misleading....I don't see anyone on the Left complaining....which is what started this whole fuss.

              • 2 votes
              #10.7 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 12:12 PM EST
              American Illuminati

              So your telling me your not the Right calling out the Left, Socrates1?

              Regardless, it's all a matter of which subject the thread is about. Obama, Pelosi, Health care threads gets right-wing haters, BEck, Rush, Tea Party threads get left-wing haters.

              Calling it out does nothing, but that won't stop me from doing it. As I see now in calling you out. But acting like children and perpetuating it because they feel justified because it was done to you first is just sad. Both sides do that.

              Every issues has it's sycophants who would lay down their life for the cause, just like every issue has it's haters who try to break it down and every step on the road. At the end of the day, where does all your posturing about the Left being more vitriolic get you??
              I surmise no where.

              • 2 votes
              #10.8 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 12:28 PM EST
              thelyamhound

              So your theory is that *propaganda* is bad, and if you see it coming from the other side of the political aisle, it then entitles you to engage in bad behavior as well.

              Propaganda is neutral; there is good propaganda, and there is bad propaganda, and the evaluation of such has little to, ultimately, with its rhetorical utility. It's fair to say that propaganda without recourse to the facts has very little such utility.

              So let's rewind past the place that you found to uncover what you perceived as hypocrisy, and actually address the topic. Is it your opinion that the right, on the whole, supports birth control? If so, why do you think the perception has arisen that conservatives oppose it? If not, on what basis do you defend that lack of support? Or do you also have discomfort with that lack of support?

              • 3 votes
              #10.9 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:20 PM EST
              thelyamhound

              Socrates1 - Why are you making "liberals" the topic of discussion? The subject is birth control, and the perceived antipathy toward it from the right. Is it your opinion that the right is more supportive of contraception than it appears? What is your basis for believing this?

              • 4 votes
              #10.10 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:24 PM EST
              Shannoscubie

              The subject is birth control, and the perceived antipathy toward it from the right.

              The article doesn't try to paint the entire right as anti-birth control. It lists some very specific organizations that are "up in arms" over the idea of HCR expanding access to birth control coverage and asks why birth control can't be more of a common ground between the anti-abortion and pro-choice crowds.

              • 5 votes
              #10.11 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:34 PM EST
              Socrates1

              I actually wasn't...if you'll note my first comment it suggested that the title misprepresented the truth...followed by my suggestion it was not an unusual occurance.

              Regardless of any other "proof" or "opinion" from myself, or any other source, the article itself is speaking to the question of whether birth control should be free and/or covered, thus the real subject is under what conditions birth control should be available, not whether it should be available.

                #10.12 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:36 PM EST
                Pat N

                The article doesn't try to paint the entire right as anti-birth control.

                Nope. Just every single person that identifies as anywhere from centrist to far right and has a belief in a higher power.

                Did you miss the title?

                • 3 votes
                #10.13 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:37 PM EST
                Shannoscubie

                Just every single person that identifies as anywhere from centrist to far right and has a belief in a higher power.

                No, pretty much just these people:

                Predictably, the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB), the National Abstinence Education Association, and the Heritage Foundation are up in arms.

                And the article specifically mentions centrists as being interested in better access to birth control:

                Many centrists hope that contraception will be a source of “common ground” between the pro-choice and anti-abortion camps. The premise sounds reasonable. If anti-choicers oppose abortion, surely they will support measures proven to reduce the abortion rate, like expanded access to contraception.

                Maybe there's a better phrase for people like the UCCB than "religious right" but I doubt it would fit in a headline. Would you be more willing to discuss the article if the headline had read: "Some of the Religious Right Object to HCR's Potential for Expanding Access to Birth Control"?

                • 4 votes
                #10.14 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:55 PM EST
                thelyamhound

                I actually wasn't...if you'll note my first comment it suggested that the title misprepresented the truth...followed by my suggestion it was not an unusual occurance.

                Here's your actual quote:

                I'm trying to figure out how the title is anything other then the normal liberal bs. The rest of us are getting just a little tired of wading through the propaganda with which we are being constantly inundated. Have liberals no sense of shame?

                So if I came to one of your threads and said, "This article is bull@!$%# (only children say 'bs' when they mean 'bull@!$%#'), but I should expect that from conservatives," I should expect that my contribution will be taken seriously? Frankly, I wouldn't even give myself much credit if that was the best I could muster.

                Regardless of any other "proof" . . .

                My memory must be worse than I thought; I don't recall saying anything about "proof."

                . . . or "opinion" from myself, or any other source, the article itself is speaking to the question of whether birth control should be free and/or covered, thus the real subject is under what conditions birth control should be available, not whether it should be available.

                So perhaps you might have done better to explain why that strikes you as something different from what is implied, to you, by the title.

                See how that works? You give a little, you get a little.

                • 3 votes
                #10.15 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:14 PM EST
                Socrates1

                Well...let's take a look.

                Now that the reform bill is law, HHS has to interpret the rules—and the Obama administration officials at HHS can’t be swayed as easily as elected officials.

                Oh goody...we can circumvent the will of the people by using the bureacuracy....interesting concept. Before you say most people agree with the intent....then why the worry about swaying elected officials?

                Below, I would suggest, are quotes which reflect the actual subject of the article and the actual area of opposition

                Does health care reform’s promise of preventive care extend to free birth control?

                Approving free birth control would go a long way towards restoring the trust between the Obama administration and its pro-choice base, at low political cost.

                So, how about something along the lines of......."Debate Continues over the Provision of Free Birth Control Supplies". "Should the Government be in the business of providing Free Birth Control?" or even..."Some Conservative Groups Question The Propriety of Free Birth Control".....

                Is the Heritage Foundation a member of the "Religious Right"?

                • 2 votes
                #10.16 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:24 PM EST
                thelyamhound

                Is the Heritage Foundation a member of the "Religious Right"?

                It's certainly a member of the right, and the members thereof with whom I have spoken have been of religious persuasion, but in my experience, their focus is economic.

                So, how about something along the lines of......."Debate Continues over the Provision of Free Birth Control Supplies". "Should the Government be in the business of providing Free Birth Control?" or even..."Some Conservative Groups Question The Propriety of Free Birth Control".....

                All good choices. Then again, as we aren't writing term papers, I don't object to propaganda, either, provided it's essentially civil. I certainly don't find this any more objectionable than, say, "Why People Hate Religion--and God" or "What Do You Call a Liberal?"

                • 3 votes
                #10.17 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:08 PM EST
                mrsrachelm

                Interjecting a note about titles of article seeds:

                We aren't allowed to change them. Whether someone changes a seed title to be more positive or one does it to be more negative...it would still be against the CoH to change the title of the seed away from the title of the source being linked via the green "read article" button.

                This leaves us with:

                1) People seeding on the vine are stuck with the spin (good or bad) the media uses on their article titles

                but....

                2) People on the vine obviously will tend to seed those articles whose titles will get them noticed to drive traffic to the seed and it's a sad but true fact that people seem to flock towards negative titles more so than positive ones. So if a seeder wants to get the hits and raise the revenue, they will seed articles that will get people's blood boiling.

                ((I daresay Soph is rather good at this, lol. The proof of that is seen simply by taking a look at the leaderboard.))

                -and/or-

                3) which lean in the general direction of their own political views

                Bottom line is that seeders -still- choose the seeds they put on the vine and the sources from which they take them . And those choices -do- reflect upon them as individuals be it positively or negatively.

                • 1 vote
                #10.18 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:53 PM EST
                Socrates1

                Thel...Sorry, I'd have to disagree.

                1. As we agree, the article doesn't support the title...

                2. Propaganda is one thing, completely misrepresenting the truth is another.

                3. I do. "People" would be a general term speaking to those who "people" who hate religion, as opposed to dogs, cats, and gremlins. To the "What do you call a Liberal"..if I remember correctly it directly corresponded to the artice and thus misrepresented nothing.

                Thanks anyway.

                mrsr...I agree, but suggest that addressing such titles is also "on topic".

                • 1 vote
                #10.19 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:45 PM EST
                Soph0571

                2) People on the vine obviously will tend to seed those articles whose titles will get them noticed to drive traffic to the seed and it's a sad but true fact that people seem to flock towards negative titles more so than positive ones. So if a seeder wants to get the hits and raise the revenue, they will seed articles that will get people's blood boiling.

                ((I daresay Soph is rather good at this, lol. The proof of that is seen simply by taking a look at the leaderboard.))

                mrsr - i have to take you to task on this. hand on heart I do not seed for that reason. I don't get to take my earnings out of the States and have just set up a community fund so viners who need a bit of help can have them. I seed about issues i am passionate about - i know we disagree a lot but my take it is that I seed what I believe in.........not about the money or hits at all!! although I am always very grateful of course when community members comment.

                • 7 votes
                #10.20 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:01 PM EST
                mrsrachelm

                Soph, I sure won't call you a liar on this. I stand corrected and apologies.

                I think it's great what you do with the proceeds as well. That speaks volumes in and of itself!

                • 4 votes
                #10.21 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:14 PM EST
                Soph0571

                Thanks mrsr - you should the group! the more the word gets out the better:-) Newsvine Community Chest

                • 2 votes
                #10.22 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:14 PM EST
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                Debora-389330

                Personally; as a born again Christian (Not Catholic), I believe in birth control. If birth control has to be handed out (free to those who cannot afford it) to all women over the age of 18 then go for it. Under the age of 18 the girl needs to have permission from the biological mother and/or father. I don't see anything wrong with birth control, it is a smart choice. I'd rather see birth control than abortions any day.

                • 4 votes
                Reply#11 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:07 AM EST
                Pat N

                If birth control has to be handed out (free to those who cannot afford it) to all women over the age of 18 then go for it.

                I don't agree with doing this unless the gal's family Doctor is consulted first and it is determined whether or not there are other medical conditions. There are a number of medications taken for other illnesses that aren't compatible with or reduce the effectiveness of the pill. A Doctor that knows the woman's medical history needs to be included on this decision to determine what the best method of birth control is.

                If we're just talking handing out condoms...fine. But anything else needs a thorough physical by a competent Dr that knows the medical history of the patient.

                • 4 votes
                #11.1 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:10 AM EST
                Debora-389330

                Of course a family doctor should be involved. Or a doctor of legal medicine.

                • 2 votes
                #11.2 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:32 PM EST
                Reply
                Lisafrequency

                I think women are being dumbed down. They are taught that they can't know their ovulation cycle. Most Pharmacuticle Birth control is dangerous and has dangerous side effects. I think more women need to be taught how to determine their ovulation cycles and how to be more in touch with their bodies instead of being dumbed down and made unaware.

                Also I would be willing to bet that many of the women on anti depressants have had an abortion or are suffering side effects of unnatural birth control.

                  #12 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:21 AM EST
                  American Illuminati

                  How many baseless claims can one person place on a single thread??

                  Stay tuned.......

                  • 8 votes
                  #12.1 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:23 AM EST
                  Pat N

                  How many baseless claims can one person place on a single thread??

                  Actually...there is indeed a link between depression and the pill.

                  http://www.aphroditewomenshealth.com/news/hormones_depression.shtml

                  Results showed women using the Pill had an average depression rating scale score of 17.6, compared to 9.8 in the non-user group. The women involved in the study were aged over 18, not pregnant or lactating, had no clinical history of depression and had not been on anti-depressant medication in the previous 12 months

                    #12.2 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:20 AM EST
                    RaisedByWolves

                    Ah, Pat, but what is a sexually active woman to do? Rhythm is a sure sign that you will get pregnant, and at the most inopportune time. I do not doubt that the Pill messes with the brain, given the amount of hormones involved. An unwanted pregnancy does the same thing, though. So, perhaps OB/GYNs need to do some counselling throughout the use of birth control.

                    Offering anti-depressants will do one thing, however: they mess with the sex drive; so no sex, no babies. Personally, I was blessed by taking the first bc pills offered as they sealed my Fallopian tubes up with fibers and I never ever got preggers again, which, considering that my mom gene only developed when I was about 45, is a very good thing.

                    • 2 votes
                    #12.3 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:34 AM EST
                    Pat N

                    Ah, Pat, but what is a sexually active woman to do?

                    The concept behind Norplant was a great one. Seems like they've relegated it to the scrap pile though, rather than trying to perfect it.

                      #12.4 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:36 AM EST
                      RaisedByWolves

                      I had an implant back in the 70s and always got infections. I think that's why it went away - too many STDs reported. If only they could do reversible tubal ligations. If only we could get men to take a Pill. If only we could get men pregnant and have them go through barfing for 9 months and watching their bodies do impossible things (if you are good at physics, you know "miracle" is not just a nice term for birth).

                      But, as Dorothy Parker once said, "If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a right." (She was a very smart lady in the 40s.)

                      • 3 votes
                      #12.5 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:41 AM EST
                      Socrates1

                      The rhythm method is a "sure sign" that one will get pregnant...wow maybe infertile couples should try it. Anything with a 100% success rate has to be worth trying.

                        #12.6 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 12:14 PM EST
                        American Illuminati

                        Pat N
                        My baseless claim assertion was more to the 'dumbing down of women'. I am one who will never try to brush off scientific study results. I understand that putting artificial hormones in the body has consequences, intended or not.

                        But to assert that 'the higher ups' are trying to dumb our women down is just too much for me.

                        • 3 votes
                        #12.7 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 12:33 PM EST
                        Lisafrequency

                        But to assert that 'the higher ups' are trying to dumb our women down is just too much for me.

                        I am sure that since you put so much faith in science and it's benevolence it would be blasphony to you. Science is pure but not the people with the money controling the results.

                          #12.8 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:13 PM EST
                          Pat N

                          But to assert that 'the higher ups' are trying to dumb our women down is just too much for me.

                          You've stated that it's "too much for you", but haven't given any logical explanation as to why it's "too much for you". Do you have one? Or is it just a thought your mind doesn't want to comprehend?

                          It's always blown my mind that the same people who criticize big pharma are the same people who rush to their defense when it comes to erroneous information they may be feeding the public in order to push their product.

                            #12.9 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 1:26 PM EST
                            American Illuminati

                            So Big Pharma has an active campaign to make our women illiterate to their own cycles??

                            Please spare me. My wife has an app on her phone that keeps track of that.

                            On top of the fact I didn't make the assertion. It's not my job to disprove her assertion, it's her's to prove it, and she failed.

                            • 3 votes
                            #12.10 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:10 PM EST
                            Shannoscubie

                            My wife has an app on her phone that keeps track of that.

                            LOL! I use Outlook myself.

                            • 4 votes
                            #12.11 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:17 PM EST
                            Pat N

                            On top of the fact I didn't make the assertion. It's not my job to disprove her assertion, it's her's to prove it, and she failed.

                            Sigh....

                            http://blogs.consumerreports.org/health/2010/11/sexual-problems-women-hypoactive-sexual-desire-disorder-sex-lies-and-drugs-how-big-pharma-overhyped-womens-sexual-problems.html

                            I'm really happy your wife has an "app for that". Too bad you don't give a crap about the women who don't own a smart phone or rely on pharma companies to be straight up with them. Fact is...they are being "dumbed down" for profit.

                            But as long as everything in cozy and A-OK in your little world, right?

                            • 2 votes
                            #12.12 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 3:29 PM EST
                            Lisafrequency

                            and she failed.

                            Failed what? To prove that higher ups wish to dumb down women? If it were not true then women would look at the potiental side effects of most pharmacologic birth control and opt out of using it. People ar taught to have undying trust in doctors and pharmacology as though they could never be wrong.

                            But they are assured that the side effect only happen to some people not all. When I read about the side effects I knew I was going to find something more natural.

                            American Illumanati-

                            I think you must believe that women are not smart enough to learn how to pay attention to their bodies and prevent unwanted pregnacies naturally.

                            • 1 vote
                            #12.13 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:16 PM EST
                            RaisedByWolves

                            Geez, when I was a young happy hippie (versus an old happy crone), we actually had books called "our body our selves" and women going to "parties" where sex education happened, including taking a mirror and looking at one's nether regions. You see, when I went to school, we had no real sex education. All education in that department was empirical experiment - and it works, you know. I kept experimenting until I found out precisely what made one pregnant.

                            • 4 votes
                            #12.14 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:45 PM EST
                            Shannoscubie

                            we actually had books called "our body our selves"

                            Yup, and my mom gave me a copy when I was in gradeschool. I'm thinking it's about time for my daughter to get the newest edition. ;-)

                            • 6 votes
                            #12.15 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:52 PM EST
                            mrsrachelm

                            I remember those!! I even had one! I may even have it tucked away in my old memoentos box.

                            Wow, blast from the past!

                            • 5 votes
                            #12.16 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:16 PM EST
                            Shannoscubie

                            I may even have it tucked away in my old memoentos box.

                            I wish there was a corresponding version for boys. My own son is 14 now and I wish I had something he could read on his own time and on his own terms that wasn't the teen version of "OMG, Mom, shut UP I don't want to HEAR this from you!"

                            • 7 votes
                            #12.17 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:57 PM EST
                            mrsrachelm

                            In fact....I have my mom's as well as my own!!! The picture on hers has the girl in a dress with a cotton petticoat beneath it. Wow....

                            But it's not the our body ourselves book like I thought. It's a little booklet called "growing up and liking it".

                            • 6 votes
                            #12.18 - Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:55 PM EST
                            RaisedByWolves

                            I didn't get that book (growing up and liking it). We had a fifteen minute lecture in 6th year about getting periods - boys not allowed in the class. This was late for me, as I had started a year before to the dulcet tones of my dear departed mother stating "don't do anything with a boy or you'll get pregnant." Such a wonderful thing for a 10 year old to hear, especially one with a scientific bent for empirical experimentation. It took 7 years, but pregnancy did occur. I admit to this day that if I had known about abortion, I would have opted for it at that time. But to my son, if he's on line today, I am glad I didn't know because you are a treasure, albeit one I didn't understand for the first 15 years of your life.

                            You see, friends and foes, a teenaged girl, specifically me: I.Q. 156, already completing my first year of college, it was a blow to all I could have been. If I would have had a choice, it is not the one that was made for me: a dullard for a first husband, a career in aerospace, a 30 year plan to get a B.A. Truly, the only good thing was my child, and I couldn't raise him because I didn't know how; so I ran away, coming back into his life when he was a teenager. We live minutes away from each other now, and I'm happy to have him, but I really do miss a few degrees I had planned upon in my youth. Birth control, sex education and abortion at extreme need are the answers to keeping women free.

                            • 4 votes
                            #12.19 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 10:20 AM EST
                            American Illuminati

                            Lisa
                            Overgeneralizing isn't helping you. Not once did I state anything negative about women, but that didn't stop you from telling me what I think. I was actually advocating women are not as dumb as you think they are. Those who don't question and research on their own are ignorant and deserve the outcomes they put on themselves.

                            I think you must believe that women are not smart enough to learn how to pay attention to their bodies and prevent unwanted pregnacies naturally.

                            My wife and mother are both smarter then me in everything but 'street smarts'. God's honest truth, I believe women have an edge in intelligence due to their compassionate nature that allows them to see all sides. Men tend to find 'their truth' and be stubborn there after.

                            • 2 votes
                            #12.20 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 5:18 PM EST
                            Reply
                            WILDWONDERFUL

                            Rather than birth control we need a neutering program.

                            • 1 vote
                            Reply#13 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 8:02 AM EST
                            mrsrachelm

                            /giggle

                            • 2 votes
                            #13.1 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:29 PM EST
                            Shannoscubie

                            All newborns so that the only way anybody could get pregnant is to do it DELIBERATELY. ;-)

                            • 3 votes
                            #13.2 - Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:36 PM EST
                            Reply
                            Colorado Avs

                            The Religious right need to stay out of other peoples wombs, birth control should be between a doctor and a woman. The right or wrong should be decided between God and the woman.

                            • 3 votes
                            Reply#14 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:16 PM EST
                            Socrates1

                            Which is the very thing the "Relgious Right" of the article are suggesting..Keep government out of it.

                            • 1 vote
                            Reply#15 - Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:24 PM EST
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